New perspective:Change your relationships

We find what we expect and are looking for.

If we change our thought, we can change the relationship.

We begin by changing one thought about the situation. One thing that will get you in a growth mindset instead of the fixed mindset that you are stuck in.

Awareness is the first step.

We talked and I helped her see it from a new perspective.

Even if the situation isn’t ideal, she can find a new way of looking at it and ultimately find her lesson.

What relationship in your life needs a new perspective today?

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I help people figure out their next steps in career or life. I help them discover the life they want to live and the career that fits that lifestyle.

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